As I looked this morning at my stats for my blog I noticed that since my last post I have had over 120 views. This is a personal record. I want everyone to know that I do not sensor my comments. If you want to say anything for or against what I have said I want you to post it. I took the route of blogging about this to try and get the word out to as many people as possible to protect them.
I am one of those people who believe that a pedophile cannot be cured. That is right. They may learn to control it but the thoughts and desires are always there. And a relapse can happen at anytime. I believe this situation with Kevin Chapman is because he has been in denial about his illness. I begged and begged him to get help and to admit that he had a problem. I always hoped that if he admit he had a problem that he could get some help and maybe be able to live a normal life. However he choose to lie about it and keep it a secret.
When we keep something a secret it begins to eat at us. It tears away at us from the inside and sin begins to fill in the places that the secret ate. That sin begins to take over and you will give into what you are hiding. That is why he is back to doing the things he is doing.
He never told his third wife about his arrest in Virginia. And he made up so many lies about me and his first wife. Trying to keep those lies and living by them just is not possible. SIN always gets in when you do these things.
My heart is breaking for Kevin’s parents and sisters and his friends as they are having to live through finding this out. Most of them are learning about his secret life for the first time. Or even discovering that what Kevin told them was wrong and that what they had seen on my blog or heard from other people was actual truth.
Please know that me and my kids are doing great. For the first time in 4 years I am at peace with the fact that he is in jail where he belongs. I know this means that I will not get the over $13,000 in back child support but the children of this world and unsuspecting adults will be better protected with one less pervert off the streets.
Love, Kisses and Prayers
