If you are asking me that question the answer is most likely YES.

Back in March I wrote a post “Dear World Kevin Chapman is a Bad Man” In the past two weeks I have had several people email me wanting to know if the Kevin Chapman they know is the same Kevin Chapman I have written about. So I thought today I might give you some details to verify who he is and maybe tell you some of the lies he is going to tell you.

Kevin Chapman is 6’4″ tall very skinny. He has several tattoos on his body. The most obvious is the large star on his right wrist. He has one on his shoulder blade of Patrick with the word “Big B” under it. It is a memorial to a sailor buddy who died of a heart attack in his early 30s. He also has a set of baby booties on his chest with two childerns name on it that he has probably never told you about. That is because those are not his children. He likes country music and loves to dance. He will wear boots often.

What can you expect from him? Well he will tell you that I am crazy. As I have stated before I am a bi-polar. I don’t deny that. That does not affect the truth. In fact I think that show that I am honest. He will tell you that the charges in Virginia were dropped to a misdeamenor. They were as part of a plea bargin. If you google Virginia Court Information System and go to Gloucester County and put in his name under criminal you will see all 8 cases. You will also see that he plead guilty to the charges and than they were reduced. Key being he plead guilty. Why would you plea guilty or plea bargin if you were innocent. He will tell you it was a 16 year old babysitter and he did not sleep with her. Like I stated before it was a cop posing as a 13 year old girl.

If you want further proof of what he did you can request a copy of all the evidence in the trial as part of the freedom of information act. Copies of the numerous chats they had, the pictures he sent her and the transcripts and recordings of the phone calls they had.

He has been married 3 times the lady that would of been his 4th wife is the one that he was arrested for domestic violence from. He again will tell you that she was mad because he wanted to leave and she tripped. Now he plead guilty and took probation and house arrest. Why would you do that if you are innocent?

He will tell you that he is retired from the Navy and that his retirement pay goes to pay his child support. This is not true. He was dishonorably discharged from the Navy and it has not been turned around. He has no benefits and in fact he owes me over $13,000 in back child support and his first wife over $20,000 in back and current child support. He will be in Marion County court on August 11 for a back child support hearing concerning what he owes to me.

He hangs out at 8 Seconds and spends the money he should be using to pay for the children. I may of had his rights revoked but he still owes the child support up til that day.

Oh and he lives with mommy and daddy. His lies will go in circles. He is a charmer trust me I know. He will tell you how beautiful you are and he will fall in love very quickly. Call him out on some of these things and watch him squirm. He knows I am telling the truth. I am not making it up or over exaggerating any details.

I don’t want any other woman to go through what I went through. To find out the man you think you are in love with is lying to you hurts deeply.

Yes there are two sides to every story. But the facts do not change. And there is no excuse or version of a story that makes it okay to want to have sex with a 13 year old girl. And he knew she was 13 years old. I went to the jail the day after he was arrested and asked him flat out and he admitted it. It is also in the transcripts of their conversations.

I know it was a few years ago. And maybe he has changed. That is a decision you have to make. I know that he has gotten violent and his anger has increased drastically. He protects his phone like it is his lifeline. He is still addicted to porn and I honestly believe that no woman can change that.

So is this the same Kevin Chapman you meet. Ask me any questions you want. I was with him form 1997 until his arrest. So ask me and I will tell you.

Love, kisses and prayers